I moved to Canada on August 14th, 2008 from Pakistan. There were many reasons for me to move to Canada but the main reason was to learn and experience new and different things. Things that you can use in real life to make your and others life easier and better.
One of the few things that I would like to use to make my life and the lives of others easier and better is to use honesty. By being honest, people will trust me and therefore will develop trust in me and vice versa. For example, once I was coming back from my cousin’s house and my watch fell on the way home. I realized that it was missing when I got to my own house. After finding it missing, I went out to search for it. Luckily while I was searching for it, two people were walking there; and when they saw I was searching for something, they held out my watch and asked me if it belonged to me instead of keeping it. I replied, “Yes”, to them and they returned my possession. I thanked them greatly and was rewarded with smiled and kind words. So by them being honest with me, all of our lives were benefited with this experience. If I had returned home without retrieving my watch, my parents would not have let me buy another one and those people would have had to carry the weight of dishonesty in their hearts.
Another thing that I would like to use in my life one is modesty. By adopting modesty in your ways of life, you will be respected and treated with honour and dignity. For example, if a wealthy and smart individual boasts about their material wealth and their mental intelligence, people will feel that they are of less worth than this person and they will feel self-conscious about themselves. They will lose their self-confidence and will feel poor and unworthy. For instance, when we came to Canada, many of our physical traits were different than the rest of the population such as our accent, way of life, and foods for example. And rather than people making fun of us for our differences and putting us down, they helped us in many ways and we felt welcome and invited and did not feel like outsiders. Here comes the most important reason of all which is the cause of many distasteful events; tolerance. Tolerating other people means you are accepting their way of life and things. For example, if I give way to other people who are trying to turn onto my street from a different road, then I am tolerating them and by my giving way to other people in that street, there will be less waiting, only seconds will be wasted for both of us, and not minutes for that person and everyone else behind that person. Also, people will give me way as well. In other words, it saves in which people can do other things and arrive at their destinations quicker.
With this in mind, I plan to make this world a better place by showing honesty, being modest, and having tolerance of others. I suggest that all individuals make these three character traits part of their daily life. In the end I just want to tell you my motto; you will always get what you give.

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